warning
i often have difficulty recalling things hhh don't take it as me being uninterested in our conversations , i tend to match others' energy so if you're overly dry don't expect me to lead the conversation every time , naturally really affectionate with my friends so i won't mind if you confide in me for advice , i'm not the type to double text unless i'm comfortable enough but don't misinterpret it as me being disinterested , am more of a low maintenance friend (unless we're close) so one or two convos every once in a while is fine to me , i rarely ghost on purpose so if i don't reply don't overthink it i may have just forgotten to respond , i get occasional mood swings (more commonly if i'm in call for a long time) so i might seem more drained or energetic at times, typically pretty patient but severely slow people exhauust me ghh , i tend to lie a lott in a lighthearted manner don't take it seriously, mutual effort & communication means a lot to me so if the friendship feels one-sided i'll eventually stop trying
avoid
basic dni cri , -15 , emil & ki , if we’re close i’d prefer if you didn’t use they/them on me , don't make flirty jokes towards me if you're not around my age (17-19) +if you're in a relationship , instantly acting clingy or jealous towards me will just throw me off and genuinely make me uncomfortable , constantly being negative and solely talking about your problems if you're not a close friend just drains me and will make me want to distance myself , making your partner a big part of your personality is fine but i'd honestly rather not have to hear about it in every one of our conversations , if you claim you like something "more than me" it'll only come off as childish and annoying , i understand avoidants but i'd rather not talk to unempathetic ones ghh,, if you're not the type to make an effort to resolve issues in your friendships , any ex friends i don't really have any urge to talk to you
note
if any of these apply to you i won't immediately dislike you;; it's mainly just pref (besides basic dni)

.. main games ?

honkai, genshin, wuwa, rdr2, identity v, roblox, persona, cod, fortnite, re, minecraft, tlou, final fantasy, stardew, limbus com, indie games +

.. main media ?

gsgw, lotm, orv, alnst, tg, bllk, tbhx, jjk, apod, litc, asoa, svsss, qjj, dod, machasal, totcf, csm, gmnd, lc, ghg, mdzs, ex replay, tshd, trv, lil mshrm, twsb, tog, whc1, ihfaw, evil ring, tek +

.. main artists ?

tnbh, panchiko, weeknd, zoé, café tacvba, marias, radiohead, arctic monkeys, lana del rey, kent, jeff buckley, frank ocean, deftones, mareux, artemas, tyler tc, childish gambino +


goats
ciel kir bree haru izaiha emil.. and bea
friends
tam juno yura ki rabia yana marin echo xio luxium alex mayis xu venus sinn miya
note
if you're not here that doesn't mean i don't fw you plsplspls idk who to put half the time ++goatlist