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i often have difficulty recalling things hhh don't take it as me being uninterested in our conversations , i tend to match others' energy so if you're overly dry don't expect me to lead the conversation every time , naturally really affectionate with my friends so i won't mind if you confide in me for advice , i'm not the type to double text unless i'm comfortable enough but don't misinterpret it as me being disinterested , am more of a low maintenance friend (unless we're close) so one or two convos every once in a while is fine to me , i rarely ghost on purpose so if i don't reply don't overthink it i may have just forgotten to respond , i get occasional mood swings (more commonly if i'm in call for a long time) so i might seem more drained or energetic at times, typically pretty patient but severely slow people exhauust me ghh , i tend to lie a lott in a lighthearted manner don't take it seriously, mutual effort & communication means a lot to me so if the friendship feels one-sided i'll eventually stop tryingavoid
basic dni cri , -15 , emil & ki , if we’re close i’d prefer if you didn’t use they/them on me , don't make flirty jokes towards me if you're not around my age (17-19) +if you're in a relationship , instantly acting clingy or jealous towards me will just throw me off and genuinely make me uncomfortable , constantly being negative and solely talking about your problems if you're not a close friend just drains me and will make me want to distance myself , making your partner a big part of your personality is fine but i'd honestly rather not have to hear about it in every one of our conversations , if you claim you like something "more than me" it'll only come off as childish and annoying , i understand avoidants but i'd rather not talk to unempathetic ones ghh,, if you're not the type to make an effort to resolve issues in your friendships , any ex friends i don't really have any urge to talk to younote
if any of these apply to you i won't immediately dislike you;; it's mainly just pref (besides basic dni)
.. main games ?
honkai, genshin, wuwa, rdr2, identity v, roblox, persona, cod, fortnite, re, minecraft, tlou, final fantasy, stardew, limbus com, indie games +
.. main media ?
gsgw, lotm, orv, alnst, tg, bllk, tbhx, jjk, apod, litc, asoa, svsss, qjj, dod, machasal, totcf, csm, gmnd, lc, ghg, mdzs, ex replay, tshd, trv, lil mshrm, twsb, tog, whc1, ihfaw, evil ring, tek +
.. main artists ?
tnbh, panchiko, weeknd, zoé, café tacvba, marias, radiohead, arctic monkeys, lana del rey, kent, jeff buckley, frank ocean, deftones, mareux, artemas, tyler tc, childish gambino +